Monday, 24 March 2014

Is Separation Needed for Realization Sometimes In Marriage?




They got married after courting for a year and 2 months, everything went on well for a period of 4 years, they had 2 lovely children a boy and a girl, all of a sudden, the husband started keeping late nights with different excuses, work, car broke down and lots of stories, he started receiving mid night calls, still gave excuses that those calls were from his boss in the office, the wife was patient for a while, the situation got worse, now he comes back late drunk and beats her up,
rapes her and abuses her and her family, the wife was confused as she didn’t know what went wrong but the situation was becoming unbearable and she had a lot of injuries due to the several beatings she had received from her husband.

She left for her parent’s house and told him, she wasn’t interested in the marriage anymore; he didn’t care after all it was absolute freedom for him. He actually had a sugar mummy that splashed a lot of money on him; he didn’t care about his children and his wife for a period of 2 years. 

The sugar mummy has gotten a new sugar son, so his time was up, his sugar mummy started picking up quarrels with him often, it got worse to the extent, she asked for her car to be returned, she didn’t give him money anymore and frustrated him in every way she could.
It was at this point, he realized, he had a lovely family, he went to his own family to plead with them to help him beg his wife and her family, the wife refused vehemently,” I will never go back to that marriage” she said, he got their pastors involved and after a lot of counseling and pleading, she decided to give him a second chance, she confirmed, he has been a very lovely husband since then, her family has experienced tremendous peace thus far.

1 comment:

Jude said...

Thank God for them